ENOUGH

I started this year 2018 out well, but then things happened. Life happened. Over the past couple weeks I have finally slowed down enough with some free time to reflect. My reflections have showed me how much I miss writing amongst many other things. I certainly haven’t done what I thought I was supposed to or planned to do with this Blog page. Mostly they have left me wondering what happened to the woman at the beginning 2018 as evidenced by my previous post. Then I realize life didn’t just happen, it was more than “just life”. Don’t get me wrong, busyness, kids, sports activities, chores, work and general “adulting”, all of that did happen; but, what happened was deeper than just “life”. This is only a small part of the story but the part that pertains to the coming New Year for me. The rest will follow later in pieces because God started it and it’s not finished.

There are two parts to this picture posted, to this story; and the book “Uninvited” by Lysa TerKeurst is how I’m spending my New Year. Two days ago, God lead me back to this book. I immediately knew I was supposed to read it, but there’s a valuable lesson attached, for me it feels like a sad part of the story. I’ve been trying to grasp God’s love and learning some lessons in God’s love for me, the real ME for several months. It’s funny how just when you think you might “have it” something else surfaces. 

 The irony….. at the beginning of this year God used someone I hardly knew, practically a stranger, to tell me I needed to read this book, “Uninvited”. I read the subtitle under the title as pictured, and thought to myself, “That’s not me. God’s healed the rejection I felt all my life, and I know how much he loves me.” (Pride/I should have recognized the “that’s not you” lie attached) While God may have healed some of it, I soon learned otherwise. Followed by the struggle of learning to grasp His love for ME, the real raw me. 

The struggle really began in July when I had to deal with some personal issues uprooted by an episode of rejection, imagine that. Family member induced rejection, which to me is far worse than most. There is something deep about rejection that comes from family members, especially when it comes from the one you trust the most or least expect it from. Carrying this hurt caused a whirlwind, one I could write about separately. This episode, not only caused a feeling of decreased value but dug up many past hurts I realized I had not yet dealt with. If I am honest, I have since dealt with much of it, but I am still in the process. I’ve dealt with it alone. People pretending to care and telling me they are there but where were they, only deepening this rejection. I have never in my life felt more alone or let down by so many than I have in the last 6 months of my life, ever. It hurts, I won’t lie. This has been perhaps one of the loneliest seasons and things I have ever gone through. But…… there’s redemption and healing. And….

I learned over the past several months due to the hard lonely times, that I apparently had not faced all of the rejection in my life as I had thought.  No, no, I wasn’t there yet, God was not done peeling back layers and well is not.  I’m still working on it, and perhaps this is something we are always working on, yet I don’t believe that is His will for us and I feel like I’m finally on the verge of breakthrough.

The valuable lesson I learned ….. had I listened at the beginning of this year, maybe I would have overcome this much deeper healing I needed sooner, maybe I would have dealt with the situations that I faced mid-year better,  maybe I would be much further, further in this wilderness and closer to the promises, and maybe I wouldn’t have failed so many times in between. It’s been a hard season, this wilderness, but I’m learning. After all the wilderness is often where He teaches us, right. I’m learning and have Learned some very valuable lessons. I’m not perfect, I Fail and I make mistakes, I have regrets, I’ve made bad choices and now it’s time to greet honesty with no makeup. To really understand what grace is and Gods love is for me, the real flawed me, because maybe I just haven’t “gotten it” completely yet, but I’m getting there. I thought I had. Maybe it’s time to face honesty and deal with the deep hurt I’ve buried for so long. 

So when God sends someone you hardly know into your life and they tell you to read something, just read it. Whether you think you need it or not, otherwise later you may regret it. Yet, I am not sure I can say regret is the best word because He makes everything beautiful in His time and He already knew I would be here in this moment. Perhaps, had that person not told me to read the book at the beginning of the year and planted the seed, when I saw it on the shelf and needed it the most just maybe I would have brushed it off. If I am being real and know myself, but maybe I wasn’t ready yet to process it. Who knows… We shall see. Stay tuned.

The keys….three years ago God gave me the word “Fearless” and the key pictured. I have learned to grasp this word and to live my life just as so. I have begun to thread that same fearless living into my daughter. My daughter asked me to get her a “fearless key just like” mine for Christmas. I made a mistake in ordering the keys and forgot to change the name of the key when ordering it. It wasn’t identical to mine either. That said, I realized it was time to actually pass my Fearless key onto my daughter as I teach her to live her life fearlessly. 

Then over the course of the last couple months the word “Enough” has not stopped coming up as I have dealt with so many things and this love thing has been such a battle.  Then the new key… ENOUGH. So here’s to ENOUGH AND LEARNING TO LIVE LOVED more than I grasp now. So that I can finally live free from ALL the Roots of rejection in my life. Maybe, just maybe, I will finally have the full restoration in my life I have so longed for this year. So here’s to not just a healthier physical version of me that I have been striving for but the spiritual as well. I am glad 2018 is over and I’m hopeful for good things, even the impossible things of Ephesians 3:20 in 2019!

” Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us.” Ephesians 3:20 (NKJV)

Biblical Truths for Vaccination Declination

Vaccines, it’s a very controversial topic these days and this will be a very controversial post for some I am certain. I have already received much grief over my decision and I know there will be more and that is okay. This is just my thoughts and my beliefs, I think each of us should pray about it and do our own research concerning this topic.

With the HPV vaccine becoming more and more controversial and some states including Florida proposing to make it mandatory I am really feeling led to post about this.

Up until a few years ago I was like many people, lining up to be vaccinated and vaccinate my children with anything and everything the pediatrician recommended as “normal vaccines” or my favorite “required”. It is sad we as parents are actually shamed into such by others. However, as I began to grow closer to God I actually started to feel some conviction concerning certain vaccines.

My son had hit an age where vaccines that are not “required” were “suggested”. I felt as though I needed to pray about it and declined. Over the next year I prayed more and more about it and began to research these vaccines. My conviction grew stronger and I soon was led that the choice should be no.

I recently had to face my conviction concerning vaccines for myself personally. I never thought as an adult I would have to decide to face a mandatory vaccination or stand up for my beliefs and convictions. For my children, yes, I know at some point there will be paper work, but for me, who knew.

I am in healthcare and as a healthcare professional this is a very controversial topic because I am “supposed to” stand behind all things health, right? As a healthcare worker many hospitals make the influenza vaccine mandatory every year or you have the option to wear a mask if you do not receive it. This has always been the case in any facility I have worked at. This past year I was planted in a new job which I know God opened a door and has placed me where I am. Except this year at this facility I was told it was mandatory everyone have the vaccine no matter what. Unless you have a documented severe allergic reaction and by allergic reaction I mean anaphylaxis or an “approved” religious declination you would be required to have the vaccine. Approved religious declination meant to be approved by a board of people typically, risk management (a lawyer), HR, employee health and heaven only knows who else, who from my understanding were not even local but corporate. I have never faced this situation before and given the conviction I have over vaccinations I did not even know how to begin to respond to a “religious declination” of any kind.

So the next curve ball was that if your religious declination was not “approved” you would be forced to comply with getting the influenza vaccine or resign from your job with the facility by a certain deadline.

So I did the first thing I knew to do, I prayed and prayed some more. I knew God was asking me to stand up and to write this declination. I have never written a declination and I had no idea how to even respond to the questions asked, but I knew what God was asking and I knew He would provide every answer and I knew He would come through.

My first suggestion to you before you write one is to pray. Then research. I found that when you write a religious declination it must be only that. No facts, no medical knowledge, strictly “religious”. For the record I hate that word “religious”. That’s another post……

So I sat down with my worship music on, my heart of prayer and my Bible and I began to pray and research. I began to write and when God starts to flow in my writing it’s incredible. God continued to remind me through the whole process that “what door I have opened, no man can shut.” Seven days before the deadline of comply or resign I received my declination approval. Something I know only God could do, and with the prayers of many and help of my Pastor also backing me, God came through!

So I recently have been led to share this writing with you. I have been led to share why I choose to no longer vaccinate according to the scripture. I have been led to share what I felt God showed me.

Below are the questions I was asked and the answers given. It is lengthy!!!!! I pray that this will help you make a more biblically based decision concerning vaccines in your future.

 

To Whom It May Concern:

Description of Religious Belief that is contrary to Influenza Vaccine.

 

  1. I am not to defile my body and I am keep my body free from intentional blemish. Injecting the influenza vaccine exposes my body to direct disease. When I chose to follow Christ my body became his temple and I am ordered to keep it pure because He lives within me. God gave me my body as a gift and I do not belong to myself but to Him.

“Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? If anyone defiles the temple of God, God will destroy him. For the temple of God is holy, which temple you are.” (1 Corinthians 3:16)

“Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your Spirit, which are Gods.” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)

 

  1. Injecting the influenza vaccine or other vaccines contaminates my body and blood with toxic chemicals, neurotoxins, carcinogens, viruses, and/or foreign proteins/DNA from other animals. This is in direct violation of Gods directions to me to keep my body (HIS Temple) pure and defiles my body. (See scripture above)

Blood is the source of life for both humans and animals, within the blood and organs is our DNA. Human Blood is to be kept pure from these contaminates and not cross-contaminated with that of animals or other toxins.

“For I am the Lord your God. You shall therefore consecrate yourselves, and you shall be holy; for I am holy. Neither shall you defile yourselves with any creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” (Leviticus 11:44)

“For the life of the flesh is in the blood, and I have given it to you upon the altar to make atonement for your souls; for it is the blood that makes atonement for the soul.” (Leviticus 17:11)

“but that we write to them to abstain from things polluted by idols, from sexual immorality, from things strangled, and from blood.” (Acts 15:20) The importance of this is again repeated in Acts 15:29 “that you abstain from things offered to idols, from blood, and things strangled, and from sexual immorality.” (Acts 15:29)

 

Description of how use of influenza vaccination is a violation of my moral conscience in light of this religious belief:

 

  1. As a believer and follower of Christ it is against the principles and doctrines set before me in the Bible as listed above.

The Bible says “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.” (2 Timothy 3:16)

As a believer that follows the God-breathed word of God I am instructed to “But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.” James 1:22

”Therefore you shall keep My commandments, and perform them: I am the Lord.”            (Leviticus 22:31)

 

  1. There is no scripture that tells me injecting a virus into my bloodstream cures or prevents disease, there is only scripture that states following his commands for my life will. Therefore injecting such again violates the laws set before me as a Christ follower.

“……………There He made a statute and an ordinance for them, and there He tested them, and said, “If you diligently heed the voice of the Lord your God and do what is right in His sight, give ear to Hid commandments and keep all His statutes, I will put none of the diseases on you which I have brought on the Egyptian. For I am the Lord who heals you.” (Exodus 15:25-26)

“God is not a man, that He should lie, Nor a son of man, that he should repent. Has He said, and will He not do? Or has He spoken, and will He not make is good?” (Numbers 23:19)

 

  1. It is against my moral conscience to inject anything that violates my body because I was made in Gods image. I was not made in the image of any animal nor should my blood be contaminated with the DNA of any such animal. He made each after its own kind in the beginning. If I am made in his image then my body functions just as he intended, in His image with His breath in my lungs.

“And God said, “Let the water teem with living creatures, and let birds fly above the earth across the vault of the sky.” So God created the great creatures of the sea and every living thing with which the water teems and that moves about in it, according to their kinds, and every winged bird according to its kind. And God saw that it was good.” (Genesis 1:20-21)

“And God said, “Let the land produce living creatures according to their kinds: the livestock, the creatures that move along the ground, and the wild animals, each according to its kind.” And it was so.  God made the wild animals according to their kinds, the livestock according to their kinds, and all the creatures that move along the ground according to their kinds. And God saw that it was good.” (Genesis 1: 24-25)

“So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” (Genesis 1:27)

“Then God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good. So the evening and morning were the sixth day.” (Genesis 1:31)

“And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living thing.” (Genesis 2:7)

“For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother’s womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well. My frame was not hidden from You, When I was made in secret, And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them.” (Psalm 139:13-16)

 

  1. It is against my moral conscience because it is a direct violation to keep my body blemish free and pure because His Spirit lives in me and it is through His sanctification that I may remain pure. When I chose to follow God and His laws I was called to be separate and to not allow my temple (body) to touch that which is unclean based on His word.

“And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said “I will dwell in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they shall be My people.” Therefore “Come out from among them and be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean and I will receive you.” “I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, Says the Lord Almighty.” (2 Corinthians 6:16-18)

I will leave this final scripture which I feel further defends my moral beliefs to follow in obedience to keep my temple holy.

“Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely; and may your whole spirit, soul and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.”                                      (1 Thessalonians 5:23)

The following definitions were taken directly from the Merriam-Webster dictionary and I feel are pivotal in better explaining the above scriptures.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/

Sanctify – 1. “to set apart to a sacred purpose or to religious use: Consecrate

  1. “to be free from sin: purify”

Consecrate – “Dedicated to a sacred purpose”

Purify – “to make pure: such as”

  1. “to clear from material defilement or imperfection”
  2. “to be free from guilt or moral or ceremonial blemish”
  3. “to free from undesirable elements”

Defilement = Defile – “To make unclean or impure”

“to corrupt the purity or perfection of”

“to make physically unclean especially with something unpleasant or contaminated”  (ex… defile with blood)

“to violate the sanctity of”

Perfection – “the quality or state of being perfect: such as”

“freedom from default or defect: flawlessness”

“ an exemplification of supreme excellence”

        “an unsurpassable degree of accuracy or excellence”

            Sanctity – 1: “holiness of life and character :godliness

2 a : “the quality or state of being holy or sacred :inviolability

B:  “sanctities plural :sacred objects, obligations, or rights”

Inviolability = Inviolable – “Secure from violation or profanation”

Godliness = Godly 1. Divine 2. Pious,devout

Divine = 1. Religion a.) of, relating to, or proceeding directly from God

“He that chooses God, devotes himself to God as the vessels of the sanctuary were consecrated and set apart from common to holy uses, so he that has chosen God to be his God, has dedicated himself to God, and will no more be devoted to profane use.”           Thomas Watson

 

Description of how I live this belief in my daily life that demonstrates it is sincerely held.

I practice this in my daily through healthy living practices as outlined in the Bible as well. Healthy living and self-control glorifies God and makes me more effective in my daily walk with Him, relationships with others and general overall daily and work performance. I do not contaminate my body with things I feel are toxic to my health or break the laws that I feel He has set before me, or convictions he has placed in my heart.

  1. I do not drink alcohol or smoke hazardous substances such as cigarettes or e-pipes or any other inhaling substance, which is a known toxin to the body.

“And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit.” (1 Timothy 4:8)

  1. I exercise to keep myself physically fit. Which is acknowledged in the Bible, though less important than spiritual exercise. But acknowledged nonetheless. Exercise is also a form of caring for the temple that God has given me to keep healthy.

“For bodily exercise profits little; but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.” (1 Timothy 4:8

  1. I avoid over eating and gluttony to control my weight along with exercise. The Bible clearly states what happens to those who over indulge. Gluttony shows a lifestyle that is undisciplined.

“Do not mix with winebibbers, or with gluttoness eaters of meat; For the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, and drowsiness will clothe a man with rags.” (Proverbs 23:20-21)

  1. I make health food choices and even Daniel recognized the benefits of such and how it affected nutrition and health.

“But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s delicacies, nor with the wine which he drank; therefore he requested of the chief of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself.” (Daniel 1:8)

“So Daniel said to the steward whom the chief of the eunuchs had set over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, “Please test your servants for ten days, and let them give us vegetables to eat and water to drink.  Then let our appearance be examined before you, and the appearance of the young men who eat the portion of the king’s delicacies; and as you see fit, so deal with your servants.” So he consented with them in this matter, and tested them ten days. And at the end of ten days their features appeared better and fatter in flesh than all the young men who ate the portion of the king’s delicacies. 16 Thus the steward took away their portion of delicacies and the wine that they were to drink, and gave them vegetables.” (Daniel 1: 11-16)

  1. I take care of my physical outward appearance, because our outward appearance can have much to do with our inward appearance. I make sure that my outward appearance also honors God in the things I wear.

“The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7, NIV)

  1. I abstain from sexual immorality against my body as outlined in the scripture above and also in the following scripture.

“For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor,  not in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do not know God; that no one should take advantage of and defraud his brother in this matter, because the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also forewarned you and testified. For God did not call us to uncleanness, but in holiness.  Therefore he who rejects this does not reject man, but God, who has also given[a] us His Holy Spirit.”

(1 Thessalonians 4:3-8)

“Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.” (1 Corinthians 6:18)

  1. I walk in the wisdom of the Lord by following his commands daily which according to King Solomon is “health to my flesh and strength to my bones.”

“Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the Lord and depart from evil. It will be health to your flesh, and strength to your bones.” (Proverbs 3:7-8)

 

I follow this practice by healthy eating, self-control, exercise, I take my daily vitamins and Vitamin D as directed by my physician, I go get yearly well visits to make sure my body is running at optimum health. I keep myself sanitary and clean. I use soap and water to wash my hands on a consistent basis. I get plenty of sleep at night. I stop when I feel my body telling me I need to rest or slow down. I take extra Vitamin C or Zinc when I feel I am getting ill. I don’t expose myself to harmful chemicals and toxins even within my home. I do all the things necessary without defiling my body before God. Most importantly I follow the commands of God, so I may have a long life.

“You shall walk in all the ways which the Lord your God has commanded you, that you may live and that it may be well with you, and that you may prolong your days in the land which you shall possess.” (Deuteronomy 5:33)

 

Given all that I have set before you and my beliefs as a follower of Christ and His word, I am asking for a religious exemption from the Influenza vaccine and further vaccines in the future. Thank you for allowing me the time to explain myself in detail and for the consideration of such.

Lisa, RN

 

I know we all have different views, opinions and convictions. However, I want to challenge you to pray and seek God. Do your own research and ask God what He would have you do concerning the matter. Do your research and don’t be afraid to think outside the box or to step outside of the societal “requirements”. God is with you, be strong and courageous!

BLOOM WHERE YOU’RE PLANTED

EMBRACE… when you hear this word the first thing one often thinks of is a hug or to hold onto to someone. I have a friend who hates hugs and the thought of anyone embracing her makes her run and hide yet sometimes it’s worth just seeing that look on her face of ‘back off’ as you pretend you are going to hug her. Actually entertaining really…. Yet there are many of us that do exactly that in a season we are unsure what to do in. Instead of taking it and holding onto it we tend to try and push it away or maybe even run from it because its uncomfortable, or maybe we just feel “bored” in it and think we are in the wrong place.

In the Oxford Dictionary the second definition given for embrace is to “accept or support something willingly or enthusiastically”.

So needless to say I had an interesting year in 2017. As one season closed the excitement of a new season began. The pains of transition passed and we began to settle into the new. I remember thinking this is it, soon all my prayers will be answered and I will finally be living out all I was called to do and it is going to be great and this is the beginning… BRING IT ON!! I was ready…. Or so I thought. We settled into things and I began to find my groove and then I sat back waiting, waiting for the next big thing to happen. When really the next big thing was right in front of me I just needed to learn to embrace it. I knew what I needed to do, God was showing me but for some reason I will still looking for the answer to my next big prayer, after all that’s the next thing right. Yes God had broken some of the “planner” in the first part of the year but now he was going to work on it some more.

Maybe that’s you? You’re on the other side of transition which may have been very painful. You have surrendered and now you are in a new season and everything is new.  Maybe you have gotten through the excitement of change because of surrender and now all of a sudden you feel like nothing is happening and you’re just “there.”  You have started over with so much and it is all good but then ……blank. You know you couldn’t of gotten where you are without the very obvious miracles as the God of the impossible did more then you could imagine. Yet now you sit and wonder why you are there and you become busy looking for the next miracle. This is where I found myself not so long ago.

I am so thankful for the miracles and what seemed like impossibilities of the things God clearly brought me through in the season that followed as I learned total surrender and I am certain you are as well. However, shortly after I found myself on the other side of the transition and when the smoke began to settle, I sat and thought “now what”. No plan, no idea of what’s next. NO PLAN, this was unlike me, only I knew that God had the plan and there was a purpose for all the drastic changes and it will be good. I had been separated from everything I have known for the last 11 years… So I did the next thing I knew to do, I began to look for the next big thing. Thinking “okay God brought me to this point to answer my prayers and desires and the things I have been patiently waiting for and praying for.”

Right but yet so WRONG; I think if you can be both of those things it is most likely in this moment!! OR is it just me? Please tell me someone else has been there?

My thoughts on the right, before the wrong. Yes, He brought me to this point to answer my prayers perhaps but most likely in a different way then I expect, or maybe not at all but to redirect my prayers. He also brought me to this place because it is part of the process to get me to where He wants me and to perhaps answer those prayers. So it is part of the process. I have also learned that God often answers our prayers in a way we least expect, but the beauty is it’s always more then you expect and suddenly the process becomes worth it.

The thinking is wrong because the answers may not be coming as soon as you expect because our timing is not Gods timing. Remember we are in a process and God uses this process and this wait to stretch us, just remember God is still in the waiting. Could the answers come sooner then you expect, yes; but, since most people live more out of instant gratification then they may realize, I am willing to bet the answer still does not come as soon as you expect, because God is not a God of instant gratification to our desires because He loves us, and I am so thankful for that!! God knows best! Are there prayers God answers immediately? Yes, I do believe there are.

How different would our lives be if God was into instant gratification prayers? I would be willing to bet it would not be pretty. Same way it would not be pretty if we gave our kids everything they asked for. I mean, hello; think of things perhaps you have prayed for that have not been answered and you no longer pray for because that desire went away and now you find yourself thankful God never answered them!! Can I say hello ex crushes, thank God for the NO! You know that Garth Brooks song “Unanswered Prayers” that’s this moment!

So now we find ourselves on the other side and in a season where we have no idea what’s next and we don’t know or understand why we are where we are. What do you do in this season?

Not too long ago I found myself right in this place. God had shown me what I was to do but he confirmed it through an unexpected friend. I was to rest, (the thought of rest was uncomfortable for me), pray fervently, pursue holiness and invest in my kids and focus on getting settled where we were with all the changes. The latter part of this I could do but it was the rest I could not grasp until it was confirmed. It seemed because the desires of my heart were drowning out the simple need of just sitting and learning to embrace where I was and rest in my season. Slow down…. You don’t have to go all the time, there does not always have to be a “big thing happening” the big thing is planted in the small things around you. It wasn’t until I began to do what he was asking that I began to understand the stillness of this season.

So in this season you embrace it! You press in and embrace just being where you are and what’s around you. You stop trying to look over the wall you are surrounded by to the next big thing and you embrace the simple things right in front of you. What are the simple things around you that maybe God wants to draw your attention to? Maybe it’s as simple as He wants you to draw closer into who He is and just be still with Him for a time.

Embrace that “just a mom” feeling even if the routine is the same and you feel bored and useless or all you do is wipe baby butts all day, or repeat everything you say 5 times to your teenager. Hello, I have been there!!  Embrace it and do it with all your heart unto God because you “get to” and you shift your perspective of this is your calling and your season. Embrace it as much as you can right now and because you “get to” plant in this moment, to not only prepare yourself for the next season but your kids and family as well. So instead of thinking you are “just” a mom with the same routine day in and day out, think of it as your call for this season, embrace it. Because just maybe in the next season you will be a little more spread thin, or maybe this is the season your family needs you the most as compared to the next. What’s your perspective? I challenge you to shift it just a little and embrace it.

If it is the job where you are clueless and daily have no idea why you are there. You are bored, your restless you just don’t feel fulfilled, yet you know deep down it is where God has you and you are supposed to be there, then you embrace it. You shift your perspective and look around and at the person or people next to you. Maybe your “why” is them and you are just too busy trying to find the next big reason or thing for you to be there. Perhaps that person is your “why” and the next big thing! Maybe your why is simply to bring some light and joy into a heavy atmosphere and that’s the big thing! It may not seem big to you but that little thing may have the capability to turn bigger than you know, so don’t hold back. Shift your perspective, embrace the stillness of the season and look close by instead of far off.

Maybe it’s a compilation of both these things as it has been for me in the past. Running from being a single mom to work and sitting there thinking “is this all there is”.  You know deep down that there is more, but this is the season you are in. Maybe your embracing the small and doing the best you can to see the things around you, given the mundane nature of running 500 directions in one week and doing it all alone physically, yet knowing that this is the season you are in even if you don’t know why. You are trying your best with whatever energy you can muster up and trying to embrace it but you still feel like you’re missing something.

You pray! In every season you pray, pray fervently and you ask God to show you what you need to do and learn in this season and He will begin to show you, when you begin to embrace your season and begin to search God for the “why” of your season. If you find He is being quiet then you continue to pray and you prepare. You use this time as a catalyst to prepare for the next season all while embracing the things that may simply be around you and you do the best you can do and you choose to do it well.  You draw into the friendship and closeness God has for you and pursue holiness. What is it you’re praying for that you need to prepare for?

Someone told me recently “Bloom where you are planted”. This is a choice. Will you bloom? or Will you just sit and wait? If you are in a season you need to embrace and bloom in to prepare you for the next and you choose to wait, well just realize you may spend some extra time there. Remember that what is “simply” around you may be the catalyst of preparation. Stop trying to look into the next season and over what’s around you or right in front of you.

Embrace where you are and use the time to prepare. Prepare, prepare, prepare. It is a word that’s been very heavy on me lately. It may be simple and easy, or may even seem mundane and boring but it’s important whatever it is, so embrace it. It is part of His plan and you have no idea what part it takes in building His kingdom. Don’t stop digging in and be pro-active and continue to grow in what’s around you. God has a plan and you and I, we are a part of it!!

 

Just for the parents….

Moms/Dads let me tell you, it is easy to sit back and say “I am just a stay home mom/dad” or “all I do is take care of kids”. Let me remind you that God gave you those kids as a blessing and you are not “just” a stay home mom/dad, you are blessed to stay home and invest in your children as your season of planting. You do not get to say “all I do” with a tone of feeling like it’s not important because it is a very BIG something! It is the most important part of who they become. So what are you going to do with it? How are you going to embrace it? How will you invest in your season raising your children? You as their mother/father are fully equipped by God and chosen by God to raise them. Even when it is hard God knew you could handle it. God knew you were the perfect one for the job.

I don’t get to stay home and raise my kids by being home with them, but you know God already knew that. He knew that given my circumstance I would be the perfect one to be able to raise them and He equipped me with what I needed even if I run on fumes every day and I have days where I have no idea what to do next. He knew that I had what it takes to raise them as if I were at home, he knew I had what it takes to raise them as a single parent when he gave them to me. Because He already knew that this would be. So single parents don’t sell yourself short either by thinking “If only I could be home to raise my kids” God knew!! He knew you wouldn’t be and while it may not have been his plan for families, He knew you would have what it took to compensate as a single parent. Give your children to God and let Him raise them and trust in what He has given you to equip you for this season and time in your life. Raising kids that fear God is perhaps one of the biggest callings a person can have on their lives and planting those seeds and trusting God to do His perfect will with them. We are responsible for being a part of that and that is huge, and you were chosen for it.

 

Ecclesiastes 3:1 “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:”

 

 

 

 

Works Sited:

https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/embrace